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Have you felt a big change stirring lately?
Maybe you’re shedding an old skin, watching parts of your life fall apart, or craving something different, desperate to finally work out who you really are and what makes you happy.
Well, welcome to September. The 9th month of the year carries the energy of Transformation. It’s been brewing, getting ready to stir the pot (pun intended). And now it’s here.
This is Pillar 9 – the Transition of Life. Living in the NOW. The Next Opportunity Waiting.
And I’ve got to be blunt with you. It’s time to wake the hell up.
No more walking dead.
No more wasting your talents or hiding behind burdens.
No more letting the FOG (Fear, Obligation, Guilt, Shame) fog up your truth.
I know what it feels like to be told “you can’t do it without me.”
I know what it feels like to question yourself, to feel like an imposter, to watch life slipping by while you’re stuck in neutral.
And I know how bloody hard it can be just to get out of bed some days, let alone jump into the razzle-dazzle of goal-kicking and living your best life.
But here’s the truth: It’s about time to get your shit fixed.
Let’s Talk About FOGs
FOGs exaggerate the negative.
Maybe you already have a seed of doubt… or fear… or anxiety… or the heavy weight of depression, imposter syndrome, or feeling like a burden. A FOG comes along and magnifies it. It feeds off it.
Here’s the kicker: a FOG disconnects you from your own source. From Love. From what I like to call “Good, God, Love, Consciousness.” You might call it your higher self, the universe, your inner light, whatever resonates for you.
Think of a FOG like a faulty WiFi signal. The connection is there, but it’s intermittent, frustrating, and keeps cutting out right when you need it most. Instead of being plugged into the steady stream of love energy that guides you, supports you, and puts you on your path, you’re left spinning in static.
FOGs thrive on your weaknesses, vulnerabilities, and addictions. They whisper the language of lack:
“I can’t…”
“I don’t have the time, money, or energy…”
“I don’t think so…”
That’s the native mind speaking, hijacked by the FOG.
But your soul communicates differently. Your soul speaks in feelings:
“I feel this is right.”
“I feel drawn to this.”
“I feel at peace with this choice.”
Learning to tell the difference and to switch off the FOG interference is a game-changer.
The Fix-It List
So here’s your first step.
Write down everything that isn’t going the way you’d like it to in your Life, Mind, Body, and Business (if you have one). Don’t sugarcoat it. Don’t skip the uncomfortable stuff.
This is your Fix-It List.
And here’s the thing — the list you start with is not the list you’ll end with.
Because when you step into the 12-week journey of The Pillar Code, you’ll transform that list. Some items will be gone. Others will reshape. And you’ll see new opportunities and strengths that were hidden under the fog.
Living in the NOW
Pillar 9 is all about being present, awake, and open to the Next Opportunity Waiting. Not the past you can’t change. Not the future you’re anxious about. But right here. Right now.
Transformation isn’t about adding more pressure to “do more” or “be better.” It’s about releasing the unconscious blocks and FOGs that keep you spinning. When that happens, life starts moving and you start living.
Here’s the truth
If you feel like it’s time to put aside 30 minutes to speak to me, then reply to this email. I’d love to connect with you. Because maybe, deep down, you already know it’s your turn and your time to put you as the priority.
I’m not mucking around with this.
Whatever you do, make one change today to support your journey. There is more to you, and you know it, otherwise you wouldn’t have made it to the bottom of this newsletter.
Your next opportunity is waiting.